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Comfort and Joy

Comfort and Joy (2003)

DramaComedyRomanceTV Movie 1h 25m
Director Maggie Greenwald
Runtime 1h 25m
Released December 1, 2003

High-powered single-woman Jane Berry is focused on the important things in life, such as advancing her career and spending a bundle on fashionable shoes. But then a car accident on Christmas Eve changes her forever: Jane wakes up after the crash to discover that she is a married stay-at-home mom with two kids and a passion for charity work. Is she dreaming? Crazy? Is this a strange twist of fate?

Christmasify rating 6/10 User rating 7 votes 66%
Christmas Vibes
Very Christmassy

Christmas Connection

The entire film takes place on Christmas Eve and across the Christmas season, triggered by a car accident that transports Jane into an alternate domestic life. The holiday setting is not window dressing but the engine of the plot: Christmas decorating, ice-skating with the kids, and feeding the homeless at a shelter are central scenes. Without Christmas, there is no movie.

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Our Review

Comfort and Joy landed on Lifetime on December 1, 2003, and it wore its premise on its sleeve from the first frame. Nancy McKeon plays Jane Berry, a Manhattan advertising executive who has a sleek sports car, a city view, and approximately zero minutes of free time. On Christmas Eve, a car accident scrambles everything. Jane wakes up ten years in the future, installed as a stay-at-home mother in Connecticut, married to a man named Sam, and raising two children she has never met. She insists there has been a mistake. The movie disagrees.

The elevator pitch is "It's a Wonderful Life, but for a career woman in her thirties." That comparison is unavoidable, and the film does not try to avoid it. What it does instead is quietly shift the moral calculus. George Bailey's alternate life was a nightmare without him in it. Jane Berry's alternate life is warm, functional, and full of people who genuinely love her. The question the movie asks is not "what if you had never been born?" but "what if you had chosen differently?" That is a sharper and more uncomfortable question, and to its credit, the script by Judd Parkin does not always take the easy way out.

Nancy McKeon Carries It

McKeon is the reason this film works at all. She spent nine seasons playing Jo Polniaczek on The Facts of Life, the tough, motorcycle-riding scholarship girl who clashed with everyone and softened for no one. That baseline made her casting here smart. Jane Berry is not a villain or a fool. She is competent, independent, and suddenly in a life she did not choose, and McKeon plays that disorientation without going broad. Her best scenes are the quiet ones: realizing she knows nothing about her own children, attempting to cook a meal from scratch, watching her husband Sam handle domesticity with practiced ease while she fumbles.

Steven Eckholdt plays Sam with enough warmth that you believe in the marriage even when Jane does not. He avoids the trap of making Sam a saint, which would have made Jane look ungrateful. He is just a decent man who married a woman who is now, confusingly, a stranger to him.

The Bickering Parents Are the Best Part

The supporting cast is where the film really earns its keep. Paul Dooley plays George Berry, Jane's bookstore-manager father, a role that fits him like a well-worn cardigan. Dooley was already a veteran character actor by 2003, with an Emmy nomination for The Practice and a filmography stretching back to Robert Altman's A Wedding in 1978. He brings easy warmth to a role that could have been pure decoration.

Dixie Carter plays Frederica, the divorced and sharp-tongued mother. Carter was best known then for playing Julia Sugarbaker on Designing Women from 1986 to 1993. Julia Sugarbaker was a liberal feminist who gave speeches so incisive that she earned the nickname "The Terminator." Carter in real life disagreed with some of Julia's politics, and negotiated with the producers that every time Julia gave a political monologue, Carter got to sing a song in a future episode. Frederica is no Julia Sugarbaker, but Carter plays her with the same coiled precision. The scenes where Dooley and Carter bicker are the funniest in the movie, and they are genuinely funny, not sitcom-funny.

Maggie Greenwald, Unlikely Holiday Director

The director, Maggie Greenwald, is an odd fit for this kind of project in the best possible way. Before taking on Lifetime movies, she made The Ballad of Little Jo, a feminist revisionist Western that won an Independent Spirit Award in 1993. She wrote and directed Songcatcher in 2000, a musical drama about Appalachian folk songs that premiered in Dramatic Competition at Sundance and won a Special Jury Award for Ensemble Performance. Then she directed a Lifetime Christmas movie. That trajectory is unusual, and you can see her influence in the film's quieter, less formulaic moments.

Greenwald does not milk the holiday sentiment. The Christmas scenes, ice-skating with the kids, volunteering at a shelter, decorating the house, are shot without the soft-focus treacle that sinks most movies in this genre. The film moves at a decent pace and trusts its actors.

What Does Not Quite Work

The film is not without its problems. The mechanics of Jane's situation are left deliberately vague, which is fine, but the script occasionally stumbles when it has to move the plot forward without the supernatural scaffolding to lean on. Jane adapts to her alternate life faster than is believable, and the film largely ignores what happened to the "real" version of herself who was presumably living this Connecticut life before Jane showed up. The children, played by Andrew Chalmers and Jordy Benattar, are given very little to do.

The ending lands where you expect it to. That is not necessarily a criticism. Lifetime movies in 2003 were not in the business of ambiguity, and this one delivers its resolution with enough warmth that you don't feel cheated.

The film ran 85 minutes, rated TV-PG, and was shot in September 2003 over roughly four weeks. Cinematographer Checco Varese gave it a clean, unfussy look that holds up well enough on the small screen where it was always meant to live. The 6.2 rating it holds on IMDb two decades later suggests a small but persistent audience that returns to it each December. That is not nothing.

Fun Facts

01

The film aired on Lifetime on December 1, 2003, and was shot entirely in September 2003, meaning the cast filmed Christmas scenes in early autumn over a production window of approximately four weeks.

02

Nancy McKeon auditioned for the role of Monica Geller on Friends in 1994, the same year Courteney Cox won the part. McKeon's career took a different path into Lifetime movies and the police drama The Division.

03

Dixie Carter, who plays Jane's sharp mother Frederica, negotiated an unusual contract clause on Designing Women: every time her character Julia Sugarbaker delivered a political monologue Carter personally disagreed with, Carter was guaranteed a solo song in a future episode.

04

Paul Dooley, who plays Jane's bookstore-owner father, did not get his first major film role until he was 50 years old, when Robert Altman cast him in A Wedding (1978). His Emmy nomination for The Practice came at age 71.

05

Director Maggie Greenwald's previous feature before this Lifetime assignment was Songcatcher (2000), a drama about Appalachian folk music that won a Special Jury Award at the Sundance Film Festival. The shift to holiday television represented a significant change in scale.

06

The film's premise directly inverts the logic of It's a Wonderful Life (1946): where George Bailey sees a world worse off without him, Jane Berry sees a world that got along fine with a different version of her, which makes the existential question considerably more unsettling.

07

Nancy McKeon began her career at age two, modeling baby clothes for Sears catalogs. A casting director discovered her for The Facts of Life in 1979 after seeing her cry on cue in a Hallmark greeting card commercial.

Cast

Nancy McKeon
Nancy McKeon Jane Berry
Steven Eckholdt
Steven Eckholdt Sam
Paul Dooley
Paul Dooley George
Jordy Benattar
Jordy Benattar Heather Keller
Dixie Carter
Dixie Carter Unknown
Dwight Ireland
Dwight Ireland Unknown
Lindsay Leese
Lindsay Leese Unknown
Sandi Ross
Sandi Ross Unknown